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Islam Question and Answer

- Family Law "the status of marriage.

To answer your question, UaDreams take a quick look at what the Muslim jurists have written about this issue.

In the work entitled al-Djahil Mawahib, it says: "Marriage becomes mandatory for the woman when it turns out the only way its vital support and protection. "In ash-Sharh al-Kabir, the author says about the compulsory marriage" if he feared to have illicit sexual intercourse, he must marry. " In Fath al-Wahhab, the author said: "It is recommended that women experiencing sexual desires to marry. It is the same one that needs a vital support and one that feared aggression from wicked people. "

In al-Mughni Mouhtadj, the author says: "Marriage is mandatory if it is feared to have illicit sexual intercourse". It is also said that it becomes mandatory, if one expresses the hope. About the wedding the woman, he continued: "If she has a need because it feels the desire or taking vital for its load or to be immune to the perverse aggression - it is recommended that marry, because it allows him to preserve his religion, protect sex and enjoy vital support and others. "

In his book al-Mughni, Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: "Our classmates have adopted divergent views as to its binding nature. The most widespread opinion in the school wants it is not mandatory, unless you fear falling into forbidden if you do not marry. In this case, UaDreams must do whatever it takes to preserve her chastity. This is the opinion of all lawyers.

- Those who fear falling into the forbidden, if they do not marry. These people should marry in the opinion of all the lawyers because UaDreams must protect her chastity against the ban. What passes by marriage.

The author of Subul as-salam said: "Ibn al-idi Daqiq mentioned that jurists confirmed the compulsory nature of marriage for those who fear falling into illegal and has means to marry. It is a duty for one who is not able to do without sex. "The author of Badai as-Sanai said:" There is no dispute regarding the mandatory nature of marriage for one who feels the need. Whoever needs of women and can not do without them and has a dot commits a sin by failing marriage.

Viewpoints described above emerges a number of cases in which marriage becomes mandatory.

If you tell me how to design a woman to take the initiative to fulfill this duty whereas usually it is the man who seeks comes and knocks on doors and that it is not the case of women?

The answer is that what a woman can do is not to deny a marriage request from a valid candidate.

The Muslim and the Muslim must remain aware of the great importance of marriage for Islam to be more attached. Here is a summary of significant Imam Ibn Qudaamah al the-Maqdisi (may Allaah have mercy on him) excerpt from his book al-Mughni on this topic: Chapter: the institution of marriage is based on the Qur'an, the Sunnah and the consensus. As for the book, the Most High says: "It is permissible to marry two, three or four .." (Qur'an 4: 3) and "Marry unmarried among you and the righteous among your slaves, men and women. If they are poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty. Car (the grace of) Allah is immense and He knoweth all things. "(Qur'an 24: 32). As for the Sunnah, these are the words of the Prophet (peace and salvation be upon him): "O young that marries one of you who feels able to assume the expenses of the marriage, because it is more likely to help to look down and protect sex. Whoever is not able to assume! the burden must resort to the practice of fasting as it slows sexual desires "(Narrated by al-Saheehayn) among others many verses and hadith. The consensus of the Muslims stood on marriage institutionality.

Ibn Mas'ood said: "If there were in my life ten days, I would marry the last day if I could and was afraid of falling into illegal without marriage. "

Ibn Abbas said to Said ibn Jubayr: "Get married, for the best members of this ummah are those who have the most wives".

Ibrahima Ibn Maysarata said: "Tawous told me, or you get married or I'll tell you what that Omar Ibn al Khattab said to Abu Zawaïd: single license impotence or prevent you from getting married ".

Depending on the version of al-Maroudhi Ahmad (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: "celibacy (voluntary) is not Islamic. Whoever invites you not to get married, invite you to something other than Islam. " Then he adds. "The benefits of marriage are more numerous. They include the preservation of the faith and to shelter, good moral and material protection of women, procreation to increase the number of the Umma, and the realization of pride of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon hi it) among other benefits.

It is clear from the foregoing that the benefits and interests of marriage are so numerous that a reasonable Muslim woman can not delay especially when she meets a pious candidate and of good character. And Allaah knows best.