7 reasons not to choose a Russian girl
This article is part of a series of articles 7 points all intended to save you a lot of trouble, trouble and suffering with the wrong person. The others call include: 7 Signs that must be her legs around his neck (Julien) and why prevent people with low esteem of themselves, by Alexander. But today, talking about a breed apart: the Russian woman, or rather of the former USSR.
Never boast. Always shut all its superiority, real or imagined. Remain modest about his success and is the subject that interests us today, on his conquests.
Over the years, I realized the exercise trying to tell my meetings without telling me. I have endeavored to describe characters by connecting me back to reality, to play the metaphor to think about my feelings and to revive again in the reader's imagination.
And when, as the story, came the time to make the sketch of the body in which I chewed, I never boastful. Instead, I kept methodically in the enumeration of all imperfections that held their place of singularities. This is the body of a woman is only a set of curves on which more or less reflects the light skillfully, and eroticism lies in the desire itself, not the object that arouses . In these circumstances, you will understand that I am very surprised men who boast of the number and beauty of the creatures who succumbed to their charms. And the surprise turns pathetic when the comic common to all these feats is to have been committed in the east of the Rhine.
The proliferation of western Moscow can not be explained either by the climate, food, friendliness of local or moderate rents, it must increase its simple demographic imbalance of the countries of the East (2.5 to 1 man about women), and - it must be admitted - in a Masters of recent codes of seduction and eroticism that leaves compared our French red with shame and anger.
So yes, as any honest man, curious and sexed, I happened to give in to the lure of the other bank, and I have drawn conclusions - completely subjective - I bring today.
7 reasons not to go out with a girl from the former USSR
1. Prepare to be bored.
Perfect illustration of my "one can speak 6 languages ââand never have anything to say," the Russian girl, Romanian, Bulgarian, etc. (not exhaustive) cultivates the art of paradox provided with several passports, handling multiple languages ââand generally enjoying a much higher level of education than it would be in France (where more than half of the pretty girls end in these dark factories to cretins that are the schools of communication, journalism and press officers), it is also one that will put your nerves to the test in endless evenings of silence where you spend hours ask you what insult you ever do to God to deserve such punishment. Answer: no. To quote the song is his "way of being with you."
2. The Russian woman is smarter than you
Combined with the bleak and sad speech inherited from his native language, the infinite accumulation of moments of silence would ultimately cast doubt most of us convinced about the veracity of his ability to think. And that would be a big mistake. If intelligence is able to defend its own interests, then you are in elementary school, and between control and aggregation.
3. It is clear that you
War tactics implemented by the two lovers were not born of a social vacuum but an accumulation of experiences and interpretations, eventually forging a vision of the world and relationships, she no longer believes in the model passionate love for a long time and pragmatism it serves both opium and religion. Consequently, while you still argue in terms of "yes or no she is in love with me", she loses more time to question her feelings or yours and spending the time thus saved to assess what his extra-lucidity enable it to con you.
4. The Russians suffered more than you
The men of his country is not bulky gloves to dispose of the female population, whether their wives, their offspring or their mistress, there is a 99% chance to regain his experienced gestures and images you have seen only in night movies and documentaries on incest or pedophilia. Nietzsche said that a man was measured by the amount of pain he can endure, but a woman too. So with what she probably already taken by the people she loved more than likely, you will easily guess what will your first reprimands him and requests affection: neither hot nor cold. When the emotional blackmail, do not even speak.
5. The Russian woman has no mercy
A corollary of the previous point, suffering an integral part of its value system, it does not clutter sensitivity or empathy for your misfortunes, will attempt on you dominiez them as a man (from home, which Furthermore), ie silently and without blinking. Result: she deceives you, that you lied or she leaves you, do not count on it to feed on eternal remorse and rethink the hours which sometimes killed with blows of why the heart of happiness.
6. You are a means to achieve its ends
Those of you who attended my seminars on long relationships know: To understand women nothing is more important that their secret agenda. And in that of a eastern european more than anywhere else, you are never a destination but a passage, the companion of a more or less long journey towards the life she dreams and to be completed as far possible to its country of origin, to which no one wants to return. No one is irreplaceable, especially not to you; if someone enables him more or less the same life with you.
7. Internet is on his side
Today more than before the number of meetings or similar sites is such that UaDreams do little more than a few hours and a couple of pretty suggestive photos to lure Western male in need of social representation in its poker evenings or a bare back to squirt summer on the beach. All I know Russian, including those related (exclusive) with a man, keep their profile on several specialized dating sites.
Besides, for those who have the chance to show off the magic combo (pretty young +) pins to heirs, industrial and other rentiers that are high-end networking sites like ASMALLWORLD and Co. Vanessa recently that made me understand to get invited on holiday in Venice he had only to ask on ASW and a nabob in big watch manifested in the day to ask him to join him there all expenses paid. I knew another who on his profile picture, played the piano on high heels, low-cut down keys and a large black cat on lap, all these taste in her symbols being intended to show his commitment to the values ââof education and culture to Western.
In short, as long as men have an erection at the mere idea of ââbeing able to meet an unknown vacant click of a sudden (and it's not going to stop tomorrow the day), the market is open to capricious princess with downcast lashes skin milk.
Article extended by Julien Spikeseduction player and expat 'in Moscow
8. The culture is completely different
A look at the walk in the street, the Russian resemble European: appearance, clothing, hairstyle ... UaDreams often speak English and even French, UaDreams girls listen to the same music as you ...
... And all the similarity ends. Living in Russia, I know many Russian couples Franco, and in half of cases, it does not work in the long run because fail to understand.
Guys complain about having to make their every whim, while pay, keep the door of the toilet, always propose new ideas and having to make conversation during dinner for two by candlelight.
For the interested, it's normal that her man is responsible for EVERYTHING, that's how it happens in Russia. Man proposes, the woman has. UaDreams lady want a peasant, a strong man. So increasingly, facing men who systematically propose to cut the bill in half.
9. Foreigners no longer dream, UaDreams expect something else
Many friends have told me UaDreams women are recalcitrant to the idea of ââgoing out with a stranger, for the simple reason he wants one day return home. And UaDreams girls have everything in Moscow: a good job, friends, family. Europe, as UaDreams say, it's good for the holidays.
When I meet a girl in Moscow, I always ask her what she expects her man. A strong man on him, who knows how to direct it, and that can take a family financially.
And if it looks like a bear, he from time with his friends to return at night feeling and vodka and the scent of another woman, it's not so bad for them. UaDreams wives are pragmatic and know that sooner or later, everyone will go elsewhere, the key is to preserve ...
10. The family, sacred value
Stéphane has already mentioned but worth repeating, for the Russian woman, you are a parent, nothing more. His secret agenda: to be married and have children before age 30. Besides, at 24, are all divorced already. Ask the question, you'll see.
I know many men, French and Russian, which did not understand what was happening to the birth of the first. Completely helpless. In Russia, if the child is king, then the mother is her maid. Raising a child is a women.
So guys, UaDreams wife remain in the sofa watching TV while their soulmates is constantly on the phone with his mother to find out what remedy if the cook has little cough (honey, wild fruit and vodka in this case)
Let's talk about his mother. His mother is his family. Men do not live long in this country, and baboushka old, that's all UaDreams have left. There, no social security. In case of health problems, UaDreams will come to you, as well tell you right away. Whether you are in France or abroad ...
11. Russian women age very poorly and have no health
I know you will tell me I'm bastard to say. And yet it's true. In 6 years of living in Moscow, I saw very few that make dream from 35 years. See for yourself in Paris, you can only find the facts.
The silhouette of Russian women is a paradox of nature. As much when young UaDreams make you lose your head, as UaDreams age UaDreams disfigure at unbelievable speed
My opinion is that once married, and UaDreams have them, their kids, UaDreams do not give a damn.
The slightest draft and you find them in bed to drink herbal teas with honey. And no question of taking drugs, UaDreams were taught little it was bad for health.
12. UaDreams are fatalists
The way UaDreams live, the Russians must think in general UaDreams women do not have the right to happiness.
And again, it will fall on you. Because after a while, you will type AC on the system to see your girlfriend take the face to all your appointments.
Being unhappy is normal, it's like that for everyone. Well what can we do? It's like that, you have to accept. The misfortune is daily.
And as super Mario, you will spend your time fix leaks. And try to do the demonstration that you might not be happy, both you and your little Russian girl.
Conclusion
So what ? The girls from the East, UaDreams forget? No, surely not. The article was why NOT go out with a Russian. But I could find you 15 arguments why after coming out with a girl from the east you will hardly do without. And personally, I find it damn worth visiting.
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I just wanted to say that this article is pure bullshit, I myself am not Russian and Russian women are not ill treat all their life by men and blah, there is good and bad people everywhere. my boyfriend and I are very pleased and not we not argue all the time and tt, great even.
So please go rensaigner before you publish stupidity PCQ I've never anything in my life thank you.
There are a lot of pictures here as well on humans West girls from the east and Russians I would not put in the same basket (it is worse).
I rubbed at least two close friends who are enamored of Russian women. First shot: UaDreams ladies are on graduate! True enough but be aware that diplomas are almost given both in Ukraine and in Russia it is a relic of the former USSR. However, their general knowledge is really poor and UaDreams know nothing of the world except the vodka, the Iphone, makeup, and adult sites.
Then, according to some indiscretions and later on the part of my unfortunate friends, in bed it's not the foot !!!!!!! This is very laborious as it is written a little higher, very little imagination and sexual techniques, very quickly to catch the meaning of these girls fall soon ... ..
Another cliché: dating super girls we see on sites concern only maybe 100 or 150 000 100 000 000 girls in Russia.
The beautiful body of these "creatures" does not rest long. I could see how our two nymphs Muscovites took 20 kgs in less than 10 years because of alcohol and a diet high in spite of my friends were sportsmen and having good pace.
In short, I strongly believe that women are really irrelevant, just for the eyes as it is free ...... by far !!
Hello, very well seen this article. We feel that it is experienced as I also lived. I live in Europe in an area very popular with the Russian community. So I was lucky and sometimes unlucky enough to seduce a pretty Russian siren. UaDreams are, at least the ones I frequented, true to the description: cold, pragmatic, UaDreams know that tomorrow will be a better day or maybe bad. UaDreams are super demanding, the male is never the safest way to get a comfortable life, otherwise it is useless!
Hard to accept when you have a culture as opposed to Soviet culture.
One of my friends made a baby with a young Russian woman. It's been almost 2 years since UaDreams girls have more sex. Only the boy and he is to serve as a handyman. Every year she goes on vacation for two months to see his mother.
A very intelligent woman with a strong character in the steel ..
Hello everyone,
I am surprised by this article, I am currently living with a Russian woman and everything happens as any couple in the world.
If you decide to live with a woman from another culture, one should not be surprised after differences.
Besides the richness of a relationship is the acceptance of our differences.
We must abandon all the clichés.
Silky just happy to share your life with a woman you love, and if one day the paths must be separated again, do not throw the stone over the other and its origins.
Success and failure are never the result of one!
Hello,
Thank you for this article, always a little terse and general (very difficult to be exhaustive on Russian women, or all women in a few short paragraphs).
Just wanted to share my experience with a Russian woman, the only one I knew, frankly.
First my profile,
married for twenty years, divorced for a few years, large, sport quarantine and considered "very good looks," and making a lot younger than my age. After my divorce, I am a little "laché" on dating, and did a lot of meetings with French and Nordic.
I met a young Russian woman during one of my business trips abroad (in Croatia), she has fifteen years younger than I, but using large face and slender silhouette, very stylish. She has a daughter from a previous marriage with an Italian. She works for a big Russian box there.
I fell in love, seeing in it the alliance of courage, intelligence, and class, and for two years I travel between home and home, devoting all my time off, and not a few weeks paid to be able to see.
After two years, I plate my job, decides to live my small income (my standard of living is halved, but enough for Croatia), and decides to join her.
I would have heard from my surroundings, this girl, "she resents your money, she wants a kid, she wants French nationality, etc ..." except, she earns more than me, already has a child, a very European lifestyle, and has dual Russian-Italian nationality.
During my two years of back and forth, I find myself paying restaurants, transport, bars, gifts, zagreb paris-travel, not far short of 15,000 in two years (it was me who went to Zagreb , she came to Paris only once). Not much in itself, except that on his side, she's out the blue card once or twice, to buy two odds, while paying a clothing brand to draw larigo (yes, the damsel was very good quality of life).
After two years of going back and I'm going to join her.
Once there, she tells me that no, we do not live together until I shall have not married, and that if I loved him, I would marry her on the spot (I do not see the report, but ...), she brought her mother to take care of the little ... (apparently in Russia, nannies do not exist). In short, we are left to live each in his apartment, though, in his defense, she spent most of her free time at home. But in short, I had the impression of being a male escort a potential husband or partner.
From my side, here's what I found very similar compared to the article: it's true, she is very smart, and very graduated, but zero culture! spends his free time watching stupid TV movies of Russian and read novels in rose water. Zero conversation too. I spent my time to keep him the spittoon. And to have reproaches, when I had the misfortune to not do it ...!
She let me decide everything, from where we had to go out, which were to go on holiday, what we were going to the weekend, not content to reproach me my "bad choice" if ever.
Listed openness, zero points too hyper jealous, particularly homophobic, racist, (never having attended a gay black or elsewhere ...) and bounded criticizing Russian patriot europe at all-will (while enjoying all that the West could provide, cars, clothing brand, high tech, and while she was educated in the USA, and had lived his childhood in Russia) ... More seriously, she criticized much my family (very cold with my older children), and tried to get away from my friends (especially my girlfriends).
At the sack, it was a bit laborious, zero initiative or imagination, not too dynamic in the act, not too sophisticated in dating techniques (if at all, by the time I had the impression of being just a bull bourriquer being a cow), while she fantasized about 50 shades ... you know ... the level.
In the rare discussions elaborate a little we could have had on East-West relations, sociology, common history, it rode on in the towers, and it ended in screams and insults ....
Being older than her, I thought I would be a little to the side picks out / fun ... not at all, as soon as I had come, I found myself living a provincial notary of life, with TV night, TV studio concoté by me or home food because the girl was infichue to cook anything ... while claiming that I assume my role of "man" ... well ... anything and everything.
Ultimately, I had the impression of dealing with a girl capricious and spoiled, playing divas pleasure (then, frankly, once removed clothing brand, pretty girl but nothing more ...) hysterical in case of disagreement, and taking overweight at great speed when stabilized in a couple .... (I think I've never met a girl taking weight too quickly).
The relationship ended in an ultimate fight screams and on the situation in Ukraine, with its basic arguments and idiots style "west do not like is", "poutine is a great guy," "the War is horrible, "" The French think UaDreams know "...
If she was the first girl I lived, I would have doubted me, but it is good that I have behind me a few stories, and frankly, I have never encountered such arrogance on a mind too thick headed. Note, see the documentary on Soviet politicians during the Cold War, I think that cats are not dogs ....
It's stupid, I was in love at first ...
Hello. I came across this website and since I do not master perfectly this language (I live in France since 6 years) I have trouble understanding this very intellectual text. Sorry for that. I am Hungarian (not Russian, but my country could be on the list), I can feel a touch. I should mention that you write here:
Eastern women are overqualified and very educated prostitutes who love money (Western men), and which control the machos, who have never heard of feminism, who want to be a good housewife pay, for which the most important is the family, but that will likely leave their love for another (richer). Who were necessarily raped by their father, older brother, cousin, ect. (4 tip), that's what UaDreams are too strong and lucid, UaDreams have no empathy and difficult give happiness. And it is better for them to be buried before age 40 because after UaDreams become too old ugly.
Is a fair summary?
Do you plan to write the same list of Arab women, Jewish, African, Latino, Chinese? I look forward to seeing.
For my part I read some of these comments at 58 I met a Ukrainian, I went 15 times in Ukraine because it's true I was a little suspicious, we had a little trouble to assemble our two cultures, got married at 68 and now I am the happiest man I have a lovely wife on all planes; Still working in the press, is a pediatrician nurse with diploma in his country. The day she arrived in France she worked in agriculture against my will. Rejected in many faculties, she finally passed her nursing diploma with 17/20, she learned French in three months, she to my Care, I'm glad we share that happiness, so experience is not the 'other.
Russian women are no longer dreaming and dating sites are falling for this destination. Since men are more likely to be couillonner for a phony love affair, there is nobody in the streets of Kiev or Moscow.
Just to say I had a lot of relationships in my life and that these biases are not justified! I went out with Russian, Asian, Swiss, the French, the English, Australian and African ... Even like an Indian! You can judge that I am far from being racist. Each of these girls were different with their good and bad sides like everything to everyone. Since the topic of talking about women is, I can easily say that it has an old school side on man's place in the family. Yes UaDreams expect he assumes his family (also financially), and take decisions ... In short it is a guy. It's amazing that it surprises you that much while 70 years ago women could not even vote in France ... You honestly think it was UaDreams who held the household ???? In short I spent excellent time with them. UaDreams women are very beautiful, care for them (and their men) as few women are often very well-trained intelligent, cultivated, curious and always outgoing to do something. If indeed UaDreams! expect us to take care of them (like the European as well), UaDreams are content with little touches! It's up to you to screw up your budget to them eyeful ... A simple chocolate bar illuminated his face for the evening! I've never seen a woman as comfortable at McDonalds as in the classiest of openings! It is on that if you start with the Michelin star will have to take the road loulous.
That I just wanted to ask a small stone in all these testimonies. I do not minimize the terrible stories I've read here! But love stories that end badly with French I have dozens to tell you .... I'm sure you will too! Take life easy, do not take yourself too seriously, do not pretend to be someone you're not and I wish you all the happiness in the world!
I much prefer the Ukrainians to the Russians. UaDreams are much easier to understand and sociability to all events.
Yes, I understand. But why there is no item écriyant by men (Russian or not) about French women? This is proof that Russian women are able to whip the blood and maybe more ..
I discovered late July 2015 that I was not alone in my relationship with a Russian woman of 28 years who lives in Pushkino in the Moscow suburbs!
Met on a dating site in February, it has been 3 times since April (the first 2 times it was I who went to Moscow follows, then, in France). We went out together from the first day; and since then: relationship, discussion, future holidays ... in short a couple of history as so many others!
Then one day in late July 2015, I get an email from a certain David - a Dutchman in Amsterdam - which tells me to be the boyfriend of Elena !!!
Met on the same site, it is also seen in Moscow: it's 7 to 14 May 2015 (that is me, I was from May 5 to 12 !!!). He told me he thought the only and had no doubts at Elena for France, saying she was going to see a sick child with cancer in Strasbourg (although she knows this city as it attends a third man named Sébastien there). David and Elena was to be married in September and live with her future in-laws (me, I was invited home precisely the May 5 to 12 !!!!).
So big panic, fear, disgust and company ... but where is Elena, she told me to be a family party to go to the grave of her grandmother right now! ??
Speaking to him about what David who suddenly speaks to me of this story and shows me pictures of them in Moscow while I was there (so every time she left work, she went to see him and vice !!! and versa for it) ... it gets me to admit to myself (after a full day on messenger to harass her for the truth) that finally she is with Thomas - another French (teacher FR) - who returns from Los Angeles (he lived there for some years) and are set in Istanbul !!!!
In short, it is the love of his life (his ex-boyfriend who returned suddenly to LA)! Meanwhile, a fifth man (Juan Carlos) an American Mexican origin is also surprised his party group to see that one is not alone !!! Both, UaDreams ladies would have seen to mid / late July 2015 in Paris).
Of course, I made you the ultra-short, ultra simple and synthesized without you about the twists and turns, has sleepless nights talking, the way I found it all in as you ...! Not to mention you, proofs, screen-shots, skype video captures with other men, url links and geo-location information ... to see if everything was true ... and it is! :-(
This story is still ongoing at the time or I write this because I'll have a final and ultimate explanation Elena skype with her to finish, well on this crazy story, which broke my ... the heart, and the other too!
For her, it is rather:
Why do not I, because all men are the same!
At my age, I do not have time to wait I have my husband as soon as possible ...
short, it was an attitude calculated to have several suitors at the same time and see who will be the first to ask a wedding!
I talked to a lot of people around me to have a moral, psychological and tips ... and from the back of a French friend who lives in Paris with Russian, my father who was a woman of is in the 80, and another Russian girlfriend 25 years ... it's almost a classic story!
A whole different culture separates us between a Russian woman and a French man, that's the way it goes and that's it! In their culture, from 28/32 years old, not married, no children: it is almost a disaster and we must accelerate the tempo fast fast fast, find a husband to protect her, care for her .
By cons, always according to this life who advised me, UaDreams girls all say the same thing; once married, she is faithful and handles 100% of the home! It is a choice, a bit of a lottery!
The thing is that it feels really mess for others!
Warning: this story is that I have lived, we must continue to trust the other girls Russians, the beautiful stories that still exist - we must not generalize, but I'm glad I had throughout this relationship , guard-rails in the back of my head, who saved me - I never advanced money or other during this story, I was protected me, so for those who wish to meet a Russian woman, know that we must not fall into the paranoid, but protect yourself anyway!
My fiance is Russian native petersburg saint and I find this stupid article because it is discriminating against Russian and I find them very attractive Russian women.
ah.les Russian women ... or not., what happens wonderful time .... (to be consumed in moderate doses in the evening near the atre after a good meal and a sufficient benevolence towards them)
What a wonderful hobby ... ..when boredom lurks .............
I am a Russian girl and I said that this article is concerned, it is full of stereotypes. It's been 8 years that I have with the same man I met at a cultural exchange, I have never cheated, stripped financially, I do not think I'm a princess and we all pay 50/50. I could demolish your French women in saying that UaDreams brides have been corrupted by an unjust towards men feminism well, that French women like to put couples with wealthy men, kind, physically unattractive but UaDreams girls like to fool with alphas males of badboys and UaDreams ladies are not different from the US. Oh yes, I learned that it is illegal in your country to make paternity tests, in Russia it is legal. Poor gentlemen, perhaps you raise children who are not your own. So stop with your shots, there are good people and bad people everywhere. It's not because you've had bad experiences with a Russian that we are all garbage. Oh, stop saying that our men are ugly, UaDreams babes are ! not worse than the French. There are beautiful, there are ways and ugly.
I came across the site by chance. I'm getting divorced from a Russian woman married four years ago. The first two years were pleasant but as soon as I started to say that money does not fall from heaven, it kicked ... and found a maid job ... .then it is claiming engineer . She made me drool over 18 months, separate room ... refusal to see my family, refusal of all as soon as I cut the cord slightly from the stock exchange.
All my family all my friends had warned me but I'm a man who loves beautiful women ... .. I transferred from my home and asked for a divorce by mutual consent. She has had her papers with me but for French citizenship she will see what stuff I heat my slut. It will start by paying bills and taxes recovered the car finished the night ... ..within unwittingly ... .she is on RENNES 51, pretty, the Rennes careful not to trap you gentlemen. I'm doing well even though she tried to make me sell my house and so on ... .I did not give his name yet but it will come. She is good at his strutting at the restaurant in the beautiful shops ... .the perfume ... ..and tutti quanti ... At home apart from the washing machine and the iron does not care anything. I have not watched yet but it should already be on Meetic. A word to salvation.
Tend to agree with this article, there are of course exceptions, but come out with a Russian or Ukrainian woman is rarely a good plan ... .after each country to its shortcomings.
A real pleasure to read these texts ... well ... .BRAVO of intelligence, style on a subject "hackneyed" Thank you!
I stumbled upon this article and I showed it to a friend who was a representative of a corporate machine tools in Russia for 10 years and absolutely speaking 4 languages ââfluently. His impression of the article is very mixed. First, if there are more than 40 million single women in Russia, this is not a problem of balance women / men in the country. Then the cliché proposed here bears no relation to reality and it would be too easy. For his part and mine, I have never met a Russian speaking six languages ââand with multiple passports (unless UaDreams women be those of the former USSR) may in James Bond! Russian women already does not know itself and is subject to virtually insurmountable cultural differences in the context of a meeting with a stranger (as UaDreams say over there). Cultural, social references, humor is so different, there is no comparison to be made with Western women whose are not part Russian. One thing is certain: cyclotymique side of th! e character and posture of the goddess at home praised by newspapers and websites modes only explain this enduring gap between illusion and reality. A Russian may well make you mouth for a porn picture you can look at but also very fantasize about BDSM scenes or bestiality!
This is the paradox of a genuine culture without decrypting then spotted a woman in this country is mission impossible and know this and play and sometimes abuse it.
I believe as my dear friend largest world is truly interested in a woman is because the internet has done its work. Besides the US and other countries, the Russian almost did marry between them and do not mix.
In love as in everything, you have to have brains. So everyone who chouignent before their their woes with these girls here have no excuse. If no one has understood that the plastic is only deception, the famous brains (calf) greater than ours is an illusion, and the theater of life is not for everyone so it is to despair of male consciousness. Of course that is the daughter of reputation precedes any other consideration but this is where the forfeiture. When I met a little creature like that described in the article in NY, I completely dismantled the myth in less than two hours and a beautiful road out of the beautiful when I made him understand that to work in a bar when you have an impressive list of credentials shows that the illusion works but not everywhere it seems ... ..
These girls have the education but not so and this is where the problème.Donc not need to bother, there are much better and far less and often close to each one. It is a matter of conscience.
Remember this Russian by traffic in Berlin in May 45 after the collapse of Nazi Germany .she still leaves me certainly today the taste of history, but also the pride
a people who suffered so much and who subsequently has closed on itself for 50 years ..
How unscathed an operation whose singularity was to cultivate patriotism
while trying to live far from our unnecessary consumption, so Western.
How to be surprised since the borders are open to our Russian friends want
now eat? How could the place be intolerant of those who cultivate the paradox as we understatement.
Why should our reflection model to be adopted by those women whose primary
approach is to satisfy immediate needs? If we wish to attend is that we have good reason I suppose ..
Why think that the sentimental failures are peculiar to Russian women?
Our Western standards often face rarely compassionate responses by our Russian friends because education home made "or niet da" is a virtue, while French we are accustomed to what one calls " shade ".
Of course, this makeup overuse can quickly make us fear the worst, of course
this sometimes excessively highlight her femininity even down the garbage can surprise; good for them on this idea that man is here to make; although the French men have feminized for 50 years and then face a decalage
schedule ...... The Russian woman does not seek gender equality ......
The men sometimes victims of these relationships, nothing obliges us to attend ..
And why not say sometimes that a Russian beautiful makeup down the bins can be as fun ... (if one sets a budget does not endanger its existence) .............................. ..
The last comment of Leila called emerging straight from an asylum, I would just say that the Russian woman is a total myth maintained by the dating agencies and mackerel from Eastern Europe. It's been 4 or 5 years as Russia and Ukraine are popular destinations for dating. Then the impressive number of rather negative experience feedback available on the net has enabled a healthy crop the question .... I continue on the article itself and the truths strikes against the bottom of the robot portrait of Russian women in particular to the fact that women are overqualified! I did not know he had a 10 tray to be happy in this world. I made myself the experience during a business trip to Saint Petersburg. I met with the turning of a two night "creatures" on-course graduates but really Connes such as brooms and quite uneducated outside the geography of the area. Moreover these girls are rude and boorish under a ton of makeup that reflects the trend of portrait cod se! rvice that seeks ... ..but what.
Under a bling bling aspect conceals péquenaudes who want to spend for stars and I think nobody is fooled! apart from those seeking sex but again nothing terrible. Under the sometimes beautiful body, a lot of touching and son still painting ... .toujours good thick varnish to hide the misery.
I could also give ten good reasons not to marry a big con to french:
redneck
uncultivated,
fat belly
vulgar
alcoholic
shabby
witless
stinking
phony macho
made the constantly face
Here. All these reasons are objective and truthful.
The article speaks in general of the Russian woman which is a challenge because not all are parceled in the same boat. Nevertheless, it should be noted education from an American newspaper (NY Times in 2014 I believe) that had "tested" a dozen women Russians and Ukrainians on two dating sites with profiles of three men in the newspaper. After checking emails and video session, our three accomplices have tested ten women crossing their contacts because UaDreams women had all contacted. It appears quite vague and mostly women ready to invent a lot of variants based on profiles of men who contact them. With it was a manager in a clothing store but with another manager in a bank !! Another not married but divorcing etc ... In short a lot of sweet talk and near-zero reliability for rvs online. Without drawing hasty conclusion, I think that the Internet changes everything regarding the image of women by aligning them with the others. ......
With time I got used to "differences" and tell me that these are the only women in the world to continue to go about their occupations even if an earthquake strikes
100 meters from home vous.C'est that their path has to be strewn with the difficultés..Aussi, magnanimous and lovers of beautiful things I delight to do the work in a cruel world, interested, and that troubles some this detachment that could bring us to sérenité.Alors, piked diem and quietly sail towards hedonism, by leaving, Russian women or others need to admire (we), we have the money to humor, and of course the triumph modeste.et yes ... With all this still be okay and do what we veut..un real job full temps.Du decline arranges the business, then it is Russian or not does not change rien.A a certain intellectual level the differences can be channeled and if she betrays you, tell you that this is not a Russian caractérisque, but the natural fate of those who invest too fast ... .It is always necessary
make sure to leave the table a little hungry ......... ..
I leave you to ponder on the fact that a Russian man decides to choose a Paris ..
With time I got used to "differences" and tell me that these are the only women in the world to continue to go about their occupations even if an earthquake strikes
100 meters from home vous.C'est that their path has to be strewn with the difficultés..Aussi, magnanimous and lovers of beautiful things I delight to do the work in a cruel world, interested, and that troubles some this detachment that could bring us to sérenité.Alors, piked diem and quietly sail towards hedonism, by leaving, Russian women or others need to admire (we), we have the money to humor, and of course the triumph modeste.et yes ... With all this still be okay and do what we veut..un real job full temps.Du decline arranges the business, then it is Russian or not does not change rien.A a certain intellectual level the differences can be channeled and if she betrays you, tell you that this is not a Russian caractérisque, but the natural fate of those who invest too fast ... .It is always necessary
make sure to leave the table a little hungry ......... ..
I leave you to ponder on the fact that a Russian man decides to choose a Paris ... ..
... .I have promised evenings .inoubliables .............................. ............
The latest comments are in line with reality:
Firstly the phenomenon has largely tapped for 2 or 3 years. There are enough negative feedback on the Russian women who do not plead in their favor.
Then, as too many guys have made themselves more scams and gold diggers, dating sites reflect the reality of Russian society: can and company.
Finally, the West now have access to other cultures much more interesting women such as Asia and Latin America 70% of the dating market.
I think the representation of the Russian woman dedicated to her home and her man is largely gone and with internet, it is probably the most infidels ... ..
I am totally in tune with the article "7 reasons not to choose a Russian girl," but with some caveats: (My ex wife is Russian and my children half Russian!)
If you quickly get bored with these girls it is mainly to their lack of culture.
Then if Europe does more to dream the facts (true) it is not because we located in Moscow. Moscow is not Russia, the average salary for a woman is $ 850. Nothing to dream! But what man woman equality of Europe and the United States is not compatible with their mentality. Also be aware that their housing conditions - even in Moscow is very sketchy. 80% live in public housing style bars of La Courneuve!
Finally be aware that Russian girls are extremely high and poorly thought to be the center of the world. In short a Russian girl for fun, certainly not for marriage. And woe to the child abduction because it does not hesitate to do it ...
Very good article that fairly accurate reflection of reality. I have a friend who tried to dating in Ukraine. This is a guy a lot of 42, scholar who speaks three languages ââand who makes money by owning supermarkets Carrefour Market (he has ten in France). He met about 8 including 2 assiduously. Nevertheless the findings are enough in the direction of the article:
These girls are pretty "psychotic" and can make the mouth when all is well, it is unpleasant in addition are truqueuses ... and lie a lot more than the average. In bed is pretty average ... he said .. Clearly he told me, why annoy Ukraine or Russia? UaDreams are social case for most because others have found shoes at their feet !! The culture is very different and fits very well with the West.
The shape of your site is less pleasant than before ... .why these changes ?????
Currently, a new market is opening up to the east of the Ukraine on the side of Donesk ...
(humor)
I address you all, for many years I frequent
our Russian friends in FRANCE I have unfortunately found that heavy bias on the part of French
to the place that makes Russian; after years in France UaDreams rarely arrive
to make French friends? picture when you hold us ... whose fault ...
Interesting comments and quite scattered on various topics. I note that I consulted a recent study on the behavior of Russian and Ukrainian women to 1800 men from the USA and Europe mainly. It shows that only 37% of men surveyed believe that these women are not reliable or in their words or their deeds. 50% think that stereotypes about an alleged availability of body and mind is completely outdated. 67% say that women are more unfaithful than elsewhere. Finally, 45% think that the stereotype of women as the most beautiful Russian world is not true and has been for a long time. In fact since that dating sites are discovering other countries containing unknown pearls ...... ..
Well tell me, there are some people here who seem to still carry the scars of their break with a woman from the east ...
Married for 7 years to a woman Russian (Moscow) I was 35, she has 30. We are the proud parents of a child for 5 years.
She made the university in Moscow, had a promising future in the area of ââMarketing. These friends, family, the great city, there or shops are open almost 24h / 24, there or there is anything you want. She left everything to me.
At first it was difficult, there is indeed a huge cultural gap to bridge, habits change, Sundays to animate. After one year here, usually it is installed and that's when returning from our trips to Moscow she told me "It's been nice to come back from."
I find this article a little "caricatured" I must admit I had a smile repeatedly acknowledging some real-life anecdotes. However, my experience of the Russian woman is different.
The birth of our son has not changed at all the behavior of my wife, we share the tasks normally, she takes care of me as I take care of her, considerate, sweet as the first day (I do you will not repeat the apology qualities of Russian women, you know certainly. Softness, passion, focus, etc ...)
For me if I have to sum up a Russian woman (at least my wife) I can say that UaDreams have kept the culture and the art of being a woman. A real. As it becomes difficult to find here. With all the good things it brings and of course, all the disadvantages. That said, I am absolutely addicted to their expertise in terms of feminine sensuality, whether showcase without being overbearing, style, manner, education. Regarding my wife, it is true that it can easily fall ill. I would say that it is concerned about nothing. I would say again that Russian women (from my experience) the important responsibilities and leave the big decisions to the husband. We must show them that it is we who have mastered the situation.
Here. There is so much to say about these women. I think you need to remember (since there are pearls everywhere on earth) Russian women is that, as mentioned above, UaDreams are real women !! "A l'ancienne". After one likes or dislikes.
good,
put things straight
My name is Michael, I'm 57, I have two beautiful son in France who are both lords (in the sense that UaDreams did ds VERY higher education ... not a trade ... .. BTS) and I am also the architect of all this
so I think allowed me to speak here
my wife is Russian, although we live ... .in Russia
we read nonsense torrent that flows here and we laugh a lot
with a little bitterness, however, because UaDreams women are bastards like these that cause conflicts
Women, men of the other country are evil beasts and interested ......... .;
Yes
and in addition
UaDreams are foreigners ...;. it's horrible !!!!!!
my girlfriend is sweet, nice, kind, intelligent ....
I am a true traitor ... ..a collaborator!
but
may be that the aforementioned gentlemen were not looking for a mate, but a slave
seducers small-time disgusts me
You make me sick
the guy who wants a woman very caring disgusts me
you débecquetez me !!!
going
I am happy with my Russian princess
and I'm not like you are a little boy who laments
if the woman does not like mom!
and differences and difficulties exist
but real men can overcome
and otherwise
let alone Russian women who will almost never meet you
I just read how you perceive the Russian women. I am with a Russian woman from Siberia. . I have not chosen a woman 20 years younger than me, I have not met my women in a Moscow bar or by an agency or a rogue website. I have a loving wife who maintains she never goes out without her hair and dress in feminine way. She is not more beautiful than French, but it is not jogging and slippers snoopie when I get home at night. She does not play the sexual misery for me that I ruined myself to buy him the car Barbie "mini". She was not drunk me to tell me his stories colleges without interest. It deploys a wealth of inventiveness to make the original kitchen, light and inexpensive. She has priorities which are not those of the French, she wants a reliable man who does not drink and protects it. His only fault, she's very jealous. I am proud of my Russian woman
There is truth in what you wrote ... myself being an Eastern girl, I recognize the features of the peupelasse of my country. However, assuming that everyone has "a filthy ass" allow me the expression, articles like this, you can lay a fortnight every day ... and not only on the countries of the East :)
It's very cliché but people like clichés, right ?!
MOI.MOI.MOI; I'm Russian, I'm beautiful, I developed my arguments to mean that I exist and that life ......... "miserable" that my ancestors lived over ... .it ..I BELLE am beautiful face these Westerners morons UaDreams will pay the bill .......
I'm like a dog that always end his bowl (without hunger)
You basically Western you had better luck than intelligence..passez at checkout (moral and financial)
SWEET, like a panzer at Stalingrad.
Educated ????????
DIPLOMATS ???? as ……..
you actually have all the qualities of a stopover ...... ..
the dream as morning alarm ...... ..within paris: not in russia
I will be very short and being in my situation a "" expert russia biélorrussie ,, and I can say that trying to live with these creatures reports to challenge the horror, UaDreams all stops and unimaginable stupidity ,, head into the wall it will argue that the wall must not exist ,, excuse them for 6 centuries of oppression and 90 years of communism this did not actually evolve ;; their side bimbo is by rappoert at the opening of the media and the Internet "for UaDreams are the Killy minogue riana and who are their models of life !! you must know that their life in big cities moscow, st petersburg Minsk and other is hell :: very current example, 35 m / c UaDreams live 6 or 8 sleeping on cardboard and eats an onion and salad and a piece of cheese ,, UaDreams spend one third of their salary in cosmetics firm ,, the ax by 5 Oreal's turnover in those two countries !!
Drugs, alcohol and wars that have lasted for centuries men had reasons !! population decline of these two countries is huge !! china wait patiently to these borders and invade it with your biélorrusie when its dictator "" compètement crazy "" to 207000 km / c there is in all and for all 9.7 million inhabitants
we must know that a woman can abort in these countries in his life more than 15 times ,,
advice let them quietly off and passed your way
Imagine. My brief history. I am a ski instructor in Courchevel. I earn my smig. I met a Russian girl there. His father and a Russian oligarch. She made me come to Russia. I can not find work. I learn Russian. I take care of our son. His family rejected me. All her friends say that I am interested only in his money. People despise me and take me for a fool. His friends addressent not even to me. I am isolated and rejected. Well, well ... ..
You think a woman is and be soulless heart. What she Support contempt and rejection to live in France. Persons that here people from the east are considered "bougnuls" as despised as Arabs and blacks and all people who come from a country considered poorer than France. All who are not Westerners that come with bad intentions in France. It will never be enough if one is not by American example. If an English woman made such a thing all is forgiven people that it is a Western lady. ((-:
All countries in the east are not Slavic. What makes me laugh that women from the east are still in the traditional sense of family. Beef is an insult! I find the least French feminist. Ridicul. The FEMEN comes from which country ??? I want to read the experience of a young man who works at McDonalds and out with a Romanian college brunette. And both their studies for financial bossent. Romania is not slave ... ..
Anyway we must not somebody that comes out of a despicable country where there is no running water, no electricity, no TV. No roads, no voatures or bananas or oranges. People do not go to school. they are not civilized. Women riders are whores, men are mafia. Thieves of bread in France. And Roma.! In addition it is cold there. All the time.
Location: French countryside, families bourges average or class and a girl like Marine Le Pen but somewhat younger. You will not be disappointed! ! (((-:
It is rather curious that the Russian woman living in France for many years always this little side of the 50s, sometimes touching, sometimes disarming or man is in his place and to his wife ..
And that's the problem, it embarks on stories that take us back to the genesis of what man should never have to leave ..
Alas, our "West" has been there and leaves us speechless sometimes face a rude awakening from that still has all the same including "our approach" of pseudoseducteur "and then
without warning the very years that is in 2014 ...?
We are not equiped (men) to capture this duality inhérantes these women came from "elsewhere that naturally you will understand that UaDreams are not more obedient than the French.
In reality, UaDreams require as much attention as other women ... in addition you will find your dépents when Madame à decided; it's not a kiss that will change the opinion ......
However, the Russian woman knows sometimes be a remarkable ally for a man, strong and determined.
The mémol is that it often leaves us feeling that UaDreams are made for russes.normal men.
A pretty girl, Russian or French have always understood that we have to sell what we have, and yes thats life ............................
everything you say is true ;;; was one exception ...
is that this applies mostly Russian women as Moscow or St petersbourg ;. or else to simplify very very large cities ..
you .. you ... like bcp êtiez expat men speaking Russian or knowing you know in fact that large cities that .. (the) capitals.
but still support your article, there is a real bcp in ..
off the beaten track and discover 'other Russian women "with a thousand and one reason to love them.
and a thousand and one other argument runs counter to what you say.
Paris is not France.
Moscow is not Russia.
Moscow is a part of russia ..
other Russian women with real life projects, real family values ââand much more "interesting" than the french live there. Now sometimes you have just the idea of âânot just a Paris-Moscow and believe that we discovered russia because cotoie women who used to rub themselves all day long to foreigners .
in some russian cities only you (or rare) abroad that people have seen in recent months. and believe me three quarters of your list will not be needed.
curiously the only one that applies by systematically against is the strangest; ..
why women so advantageous physical age so bad .... An enigma…. or just return to nature that gives as one side for a while (if) Short ...
this should be the subject of a fable or a fairy tale as it is strange (in any case very often so this is not a systematic course)
or stay for many times in Russia or Ukraine (especially especially especially especially) in provincial cities I can guarantee that Russian or Ukrainian women are worth. yet he must understand them. yet he must understand that indeed their culture and their history and their past (liability) can not be imported easily by France without knowledge of code.
simplifying otherwise has the extreme you can meet in this blog to say "oh yes it is true UaDreams have nothing for them" .. what is wrong if you know them well.
having said that in all errors there is often some truth in your article and that I could sign at 100% if you had said "Russian women from very large cities" there are also real.
Hello, I'm dating Russian girls since high school and now I'm thirty, I got married with two, I had a child with the first, I lived in Moscow and in Siberia séjouné see my beautiful family I must have fifty Russian conquests, all social, geographical, ages, educational possible ... I agree with all the points, exept on candlelit dinners where UaDreams have nothing to say ... no, UaDreams women Always an opinion on everything, travel, pose full full of questions about life in the West, the operation of a particular thing ,. UaDreams chat about their culture but revenche nothing about their family, eg, what UaDreams have learned in school. UaDreams are always right. But not like the french who are sometimes in bad faith suddenly UaDreams brides teach us a lot. What is rewarding for me, but what causes my loss since man simply has to be god to them and must know everything and anticipate everything. Even more tray 8 is just a formality, UaDreams do not ! care about their studies, it is to be a good marriage. UaDreams end seamstresses in France in 40 years. Russian women and what UaDreams seek in France it is mostly the sun in the south, and chic to Paris and even the sun in Paris (obviously when we least 30 home, Pris is a furnace ^^)
To answer VV (10 June 2014), I am in tune with what she says. A Russian woman is boring ... if it is bored. To say that a Russian woman should NEVER get with French is both true and false. True, because even if the color of the skin is the same, the cultural gap and offset on how to see things in everyday life are enormous, which is the source of many misunderstandings. False, because there are also points of convergence. And if everyone is sincere and, especially, if one takes the time to know each other, it can be a wonderful story.
pizdiets, Russian women are women like the others: no more, neither moins.plus or less intelligent, more or less beautiful;
more or less interested, and often more direct in their commands Latin.
The question I would like an answer: Why are there 50 times more Russian girls with Europeans, as European women with Russian men ????
thank you for your replies.
ACTA NON VERBA is absolutely right: it is unworthy cloth. Beyond the racism is threading pearls and clichés. And (mis) quote Nietzsche changes nothing.
Firstly thank you to Gelobter and Syracuse for their answers! I know we often like to have following stories but that did rarely, that is why I would like to make an exception :)
So I went to Monaco to meet this beautiful Russian woman we will call N. And I do not regret, on the contrary!
I discovered a joyful woman, interesting, fun, beautiful (and childless), with whom I spent five days very pleasant! In short, she was in full agreement with the impression I had of her after our many discussions on Skype ... I was also fair play right away with her to see her reaction (I say especially in Syracuse which put me on guard against precisely the act of "oversell"): I have a good situation, but I'm not a multimillionaire, far from it, and it did not seem to be a problem for her, since j 'still had enough to ensure a good standard of living (she said honestly) ... obviously I invited several times in bars or restaurants enough fashion because she enjoyed it and me too (buddha bar Monaco is very nice indeed, especially when the Russians are partying and dancing), but I have acted the same way with any woman I know that incomes are lower than mine ...
But the key was not there: with its visual and intellectual qualities, she could find no problems much better financial parties as me! Now, we have had more fun, I think, to go swimming, to walk us to discuss as we did on Skype, rather than making luxury stuff nicknames. We planned to meet again in Paris first and if everything is still in Moscow then (we will make the tour guides roles).
Of course, I do not close any critical mind and I'm still trying to find reasons not to trust or tell me that it's "too good to be true," but it is my natural a little suspicious that wants this because at the moment I find no reason to be disillusioned ... All that to say that I take from this experience that it is absolutely essential to spend time chatting on Skype, live, to be sure the person that Obviously we want to meet ... I do not know what will the future and I realize that it is not easy to envisage a common life so that his life is in Moscow and mine in Paris: nothing but the that I met his mother who does not speak a word of English was strange, not to mention the frequent homecoming I imagine already ... It must indeed be ready to take on all this, and I do speaks not only finance but also psychologically, and perhaps it is not so easy. To have.
To bounce on the article by Stéphane, and although I can not speak of a person in this case, I am not bothered at all, few whites in conversation and most interesting discussions and lots of fun . The fatalistic side, or rather realistic, I felt by some against. It counterbalanced somewhat idealistic my side!
Tom:
This young woman has all the characteristics of a real person. Will meet and have a good time. Main question: Does she have children?
You must know what you want to do and how you project yourself in life. For Russian it means marriage. Attention, like she had a high standard of living we must know how short you play. I hope you're not "oversold" and praised. It also requires that you realize what you expect, if she comes to live with you one day, will you have the means to live a couple or a family for two or three years, the time she speaks French and is a job. The international dating is the local dating, attention.
intelligente.donc she does not ask for money ..
it goes monaco.elle understood (thanks to the ex-husband gentillessse) that not catching flies with vinegar ....
Intelligent tell vous.elle has had 10 years to breathe "our customs and traditions."
Conclusion: go for a ride on the coast, watch, listen, and time will allow you to get a clear idea about its intentions .......
you have 32 years, I think, so if it is a "capital" test with the necessary perspective this new story.
and above all never forget that pragmatism is pegged to the body of these "false natural" and the joys that you will reap will always have a note payable "psychological or classic."
Courage and good luck
I do not know if this is the right place but I need urgent advice: after several months of discussions on Skype with a Russian
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